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4 Important Lessons

What are your most important lessons for what you are going through in your life now?

You see, in every situation you face, there are always lessons to learn and opportunities to grow. Challenges more specifically bring about the most important lessons and the biggest growth, if you get the lesson!

Self-reflection and inner work is essential for growth and should not be neglected. If you want new results in your life, you need to change. Period.

You cannot get to a new level in your life being the same person you are now…who you are now has gotten you the results you have currently.

Introspection is an important part of change. Do not neglect your own personal development. You have to grow into the person you need to be, to obtain the results you seek!

The main reason we are where we are today is because we consistently take time to ask ourselves important quality questions and ponder on the answers. We challenge our own thinking and step outside ourselves to find our blind spots.

Today, we thought we’d be open and transparent and share with you a few of our most recent learnings…

1. Remember to practice gratitude daily. This practice, we must admit, had slid away from the both of us. These days, we have been very focused on what we are grateful for. Gratitude is a very Powerful State, and when you live from that space consistently, the positive effects are infinite. You’re more empowered, you’re more at peace, you’re happier, you’re more abundant, you tap in to our higher consciousness…and the list just goes on and on. When you are going through a rough patch or when you are not where we want to be, it is far too easy to get caught up in the challenges you’re going through or to focus on what you don’t have. However, this is exactly when you need to practice gratitude the most. There are always things to be grateful for. Change your focus. Find these things you do have to be grateful for and make them your focus. See how your life transforms…










2. Focus on what it will feel like at the end. When you are going through challenges, it can bring about negative feelings and negative states of being. These are not conducive for obtaining successful results. You can’t get the lessons you need to get in order to overcome the challenges you are going through when you are feeling negative feelings. Change your focus. Focus on where you are going instead of where you are now and what you are currently going through. Focus on the results you want to obtain and what it will feel like once you achieve them. Create a massive compelling vision with such precise clarity that it pulls you forward despite anything you are currently going through. Really feel those feelings of what it feels like at the end. Feel these feelings now. Put yourself in that state now. See how your life transforms…










3. Push yourself beyond the limits of your comfort zone. Your comfort zone is keeping you limited. As humans, we are creatures of habit and it is in our nature to seek what is comfortable, whether it is a real or not. In all we do, we are constantly attempting to remain comfortable to the point where often times, we consciously or unconsciously set up tests, with ourselves and also with others around us, which re-affirm our fears and limitations. This keeps us comfortable, stuck and excuses us from really going to the next level. (This is deep stuff and very important lessons we’ve been learning…re-read these last 2 sentences a few times.) Does this sound familiar? Ask yourself…what patterns are you repeating to keep you comfortable? How is this affecting your results? How is this affecting your relationships? All the rewards truly lay outside of your comfort zone my friend. You have to constantly push and stretch beyond your own boundaries of thinking and behaving as well as beyond the boundaries others impose upon you. Try it and see how your life transforms…










4. Hold a “No Matter What” standard in your intimate relationship. Meaning… No matter what happens, no matter what the circumstances…we, as a couple, are going to stick together, grow together, be together and love together. We are going to make it! Period. No Matter What. Intimate relationships are the area of life that is the absolute most challenging of all. On the other hand, they also come with the highest rewards, when we master them! There is no investment of time or money too high to pay to master this area. All the material things can be taken away but if you create it — love will always be there — and nothing else will ever matter, as long as you have each other. Choose to love no matter what. Choose to make your relationship a priority. Develop and master the skills and strategies that will create this unshakable love. Don’t let your personal fears take you out of the love that should and could be. Commit to holding a “No Matter What” standard in your relationship. See how your life transforms…










Our question to you now is…

What is it that you need to get, understand or let go of, in order to go to the next level? What needs to happen to create the life you want?

Comment below and share with us. We would love to hear about you and what you are learning, have learnt or need to learn.

Remember, no matter what it is you may be going through right now, there is always someone else out there who has it worse. Your lessons could serve as the tipping point of inspiration, courage or solution for another person!

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